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A Better Way to Create New Holiday Traditions
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

A Better Way to Create New Holiday Traditions

As the holidays approach, it’s time to reclaim joy and build traditions that truly reflect who we are today—not the patterns we were raised with or the expectations others have placed on us. By setting clear boundaries, focusing on what we can control, and embracing self-care, we can transform this season into one of meaning, peace, and healing. Whether honoring loved ones we’ve lost or creating new traditions with chosen family, we each hold the power to make this holiday one that aligns with our values, our peace, and our purpose.

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Rest and Renewal: The Better Way to Self-Care During the Holiday Season
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Rest and Renewal: The Better Way to Self-Care During the Holiday Season

The holidays can be both joyful and overwhelming. In this blog, we explore eight types of self-care—physical, emotional, spiritual, and more—to help you stay grounded and refreshed. Discover how to care for yourself this holiday season with practical tips, scripture, and a few laughs.

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Overcoming Shame: Steps to Heal and Thrive
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Overcoming Shame: Steps to Heal and Thrive

Shame is more than just a fleeting feeling—it's a powerful emotion that can deeply affect how we see ourselves and interact with the world. In our latest podcast episode, "Overcoming Shame: Steps to Heal and Thrive," we explore how shame differs from guilt, the common triggers that fuel it, and practical steps to break free from its grip. Whether you’re dealing with childhood trauma or everyday stressors, understanding and challenging shame is the first step toward healing and living a life of true freedom and empowerment.

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Healing from Shame: A Whole-Person Approach
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Healing from Shame: A Whole-Person Approach

Learn about the shame cycle and how it can affect mental health. This blog covers how shame can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms and patterns in relationships. It also explores the roots of shame in childhood and provides an understanding of how shame is a normal human experience that can be broken. Discover how the cycle of shame can be recognized and skillfully shifted towards healthier coping mechanisms, leading to a more positive sense of self.

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A Tale of Finding My Voice
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

A Tale of Finding My Voice

Finding My Voice: A Tale of Too Much? – Have you ever been told you’re too much? I have, and those messages followed me into adulthood.

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Healing in the Dirt: Discover the Power of Centering Clay in Pottery
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Healing in the Dirt: Discover the Power of Centering Clay in Pottery

Healing in the dirt, did you ever play in the mud as a child? What thoughts, memories, or emotions does that invoke?

Embark on a journey of discovery with pottery as we explore how this ancient art form can offer profound emotional healing and mindfulness. From the sensory joy of molding clay to the therapeutic process of centering, uncover the unique connection between creativity, nature, and inner peace.

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Embracing Resilience: A Trauma Therapist's Guide to New Beginnings 
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Embracing Resilience: A Trauma Therapist's Guide to New Beginnings 

Embracing Resilience: A Trauma Therapist's Guide to New Beginnings

Start the New Year with a journey of healing and growth through 'Embracing and Building Resilience.' Learn to set compassionate goals and embrace mindfulness with practical exercises. Join us as we explore the path to emotional wellness and resilience, offering hope and guidance for anyone looking to enhance their mental health in the coming year.

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Autumn Self Care: 7 Ways to Nurture Your Mind and Spirit
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Autumn Self Care: 7 Ways to Nurture Your Mind and Spirit

Autumn Self Care: 7 Ways to Nurture Your Mind and Spirit
As the leaves change and the air turns crisp, the fall season invites us to slow down, reflect, and engage in self-care that nurtures not only our physical well-being but also our minds and spirits. In this blog post, we'll explore seven autumn self-care activities that offer a tranquil escape from daily stresses while fostering relaxation, inner reflection, and a deeper connection to the world around us.

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A Pathway to Healing: The Power of Integrating Faith and Psychology
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

A Pathway to Healing: The Power of Integrating Faith and Psychology

Discover the transformative power of integrating faith and psychology on the pathway to healing and self-discovery. Embrace life's messiness, acknowledge and express your emotions, seek support, and navigate the depths of self-discovery. Let go of control and invite God into your pain as you embark on this remarkable journey. Find solace, understanding, and profound transformation as faith and psychology merge to illuminate the way toward wholeness and restoration. Embrace a harmonious partnership that offers comfort, growth, and space for miracles to unfold. There is a better way—a way where faith meets psychology, and where healing truly begins.

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Unveiling How My Midnight Calling Birthed a Book of Healing and Transformation
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Unveiling How My Midnight Calling Birthed a Book of Healing and Transformation

Embark on a transformative journey as the Midnight Calling unveils the birth of "A Better Way: Integrating Faith and Psychology to Heal Inner Wounds." Discover the power of building bridges between suffering and thriving, where healing blossoms. Join us on this intimate quest of healing, transformation, and profound joy. Start your exploration by taking the Shame Quiz and stay updated on the book's release. Join our community of seekers and embrace the path of healing and growth.

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It Wasn't Normal: The Impact of Childhood Abuse and the Road to Recovery
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

It Wasn't Normal: The Impact of Childhood Abuse and the Road to Recovery

Sometimes childhood abuse can make survivors feel like their experiences were "normal," but the truth is that abuse is never normal. Coping mechanisms like denial, dissociation, and minimizing the abuse can make it tough for survivors to acknowledge the true severity of what happened. Childhood trauma can have long-lasting effects into adulthood, affecting relationships, trust, and even physical health. But the road to recovery is possible with the right support and resources, including therapy and self-care practices. Join us on the road to healing and never give up on the journey to recovery.

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Coping with Overwhelming Anxiety
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Coping with Overwhelming Anxiety

Coping with overwhelming anxiety can feel impossible. It can affect one physically, emotionally, and mentally. Nine coping skills for anxiety are listed in this blog.

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New Year, New Hope
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

New Year, New Hope

New Year’s Resolutions rarely work. This year let your goals and plans include setting an intention to be mindful and present. Being the best version of you. Getting healthy this year depends on setting realistic expectations and allowing yourself to reflect often and being flexible when the intention is not working.

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Overcoming Shame
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Overcoming Shame

Learn how to break free from the cycle of shame that can lead to depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Discover the six steps to overcoming shame, including acknowledging the problem, identifying the root, and seeking professional help. By learning to forgive yourself and developing self-compassion, you can treat yourself with the respect and kindness that you deserve. Work with a coach or mental health professional to understand your patterns and move forward towards a more authentic and fulfilling life. Don't let shame hold you back - take the first step towards healing today.

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The Shame Cycle
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

The Shame Cycle

Learn about the shame cycle and how it can affect mental health. This blog covers how shame can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms and patterns in relationships. It also explores the roots of shame in childhood and provides an understanding of how shame is a normal human experience that can be broken. Discover how the cycle of shame can be recognized and skillfully shifted towards healthier coping mechanisms, leading to a more positive sense of self.

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Shame and Trauma
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Shame and Trauma

Experiences of trauma leave many victims with feelings of shame, a voice in their head telling them they are unworthy, disgusting, terrible, or irredeemable. Shame thrives on secrecy and will do anything it can to stop its story from being shared. There are many theories or reasons why trauma and shame may be linked. Let’s consider a few of them and, as we consider them, challenge ourselves to see any personal shame for what it is and allow ourselves to begin the healing process.

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Shame Defined
Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Shame Defined

Experiencing shame is a painful emotion that can leave us feeling unworthy, damaged, and disconnected from ourselves and others. Unlike guilt, which focuses on a specific behavior or event, shame can consume our whole self, making it difficult to shake off. Shame can stem from childhood experiences, such as being invalidated by caregivers, and can be exacerbated by trauma, neglect, or feeling like an outsider. When left unchecked, shame can lead to negative consequences, such as social withdrawal, addictions, depression, and risky behaviors. Understanding and addressing shame is an essential step toward healing and building self-worth.

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